As an attractive female, you get everything in your life for free except one thing: genuine love.
The female is the one that holds space between her and the male.
Male attacks. She holds distance.
Most of the time, a man’s deliberately channeled attention is magic that breaks the distance females are firmly trying to hold.
Her deepest desire is to be claimed and taken care of.
I can’t believe that many males can’t figure out that stability is the most crucial thing females focus on when choosing a mate.
Does he bring more peace and security to her life or not?
Can he provide for her and the kids?
Or is he just some mailable mass to be smeared around?
She can smell a weak man on a mile.
Either she became totally disgusted with him or tried to break him apart.
You might ask: “Why would she do that?”
Well, just because she can.
It’s in her instinct.
It’s his fault that he is weak.
She instinctively pushes the boundaries of what is accepted in the relationship.
She unconsciously tries to break her man so she can know what he is capable of. Where is the edge of his character?
If she feels she can go further down the hill, she will go.
If you set a boundary as a male, she will be happy and satisfied because, deep down, that’s what she was aiming for; to test your dignity and character.
You can’t be mad at a girl for trying to drive you crazy.
That’s ingrained in her nature.
She must know what her male is capable of before surrendering to him fully.
I have a theory that once a girl turns 23, her brain starts metamorphosing, and chemicals in her body change; they become more motherly.
You can’t fight instinct and Mother Nature.
Your perspective shifts. Priorities reshuffle.
Your urge for strong masculinity escalates.
To mate and settle is imperative.
You don’t fall in love with potential anymore.
You fall in love with facts.
To all females trying to figure out their life.
Don’t worry. I am here with you.
Everything will be all right.
With love,
Angela <3
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