You are malleable and coachable.

Especially in the presence of healthy male authority.

We as females must clearly choose with whom we want to engage and surrender to in marriage since we will fall (or rise) to our partner's standards.

We will download their system beliefs.

It’s just the way it is in our nature

You can’t fight biology.

For your whole life, you will bear the consequences of lack of the skillset, character, and knowledge of the man you live with.

Do you truly want to spend your life with somebody incapable, egotistical, insecure, incompetent, and retarded? I am not saying your partner is any of this, but I am just giving you perspective.

You cannot change your partner.

You don’t want to change your partner either.

By trying to change him, you are ruining the polarity dynamics established between your gender.

Differentiation creates friction.

Free him from your projections.

Choosing your partner based on physical appearance or status is dangerous.

That’s why it's important to know your values and principles align.

You must embrace the change in development in both of you in the future that’s coming.

I don’t want to be next to the man who makes me feel less of myself than I am.

Maybe I need time to soften my idealistic point of view or loosen my ambition.

Maybe I have no clue what I am doing.

But what I know is I am surrendering to God's guidance.

Love you all <3