2023 Summer Observing | Part1

Each human being strives for one thing: love. Love and acceptance. That’s what the human soul strives for. Each female is in pursuit of pristine love. To be truly loved and accepted as a whole, a beautiful soul embraced by another human being - that’s where the life wonders happen. She loves him for who he is.

You, as a girl, always lose when playing toxic mini-games with cheap, intoxicated men. The real girl doesn’t play cheap games; she knows how to position herself in regard to her man so they can both habitat at their peak existence. She is not manipulating him. She is complementing him by surrendering to his guidance. She knows how to show him he made a mistake without hurting his ego. She knows how to expand his horizons and help him see the depth of the subject. She is gentle. She is madam. Fatam femme. She knows he would kill for her. I remember when my high school boyfriend told me for the first time: “You don’t understand what I am ready to do for you. I would kill for you”. I quite literally didn’t understand this. Since we were both 18, I thought he just didn’t know what he was talking about. I thought his immature speaks through him just so he could sound more alpha. I think each male has to go through that phase in life when he meets the beast in him, ready to kill in order to protect his loved ones.

A couple of things females strives for from male partner are protection, safety, guidance, clarity, and leadership. I don’t want to think about anything except for my man and my children's health.

What happens when you spend time among naked bodies? If you are a girl or boy, and you definitely are some of two of these, you’ve been exposed with nothing on you than just a swimsuit.When I am walking on the pool or down the beach I enjoy observing people. The man who occupies my attention is the man who is physically most dominant. Tall, healthy, masculine man. But my attraction changed when all these people that I saw on the beach took their material possessions and represented themselves in the real world. Then, the person who gets most of my attention is the person with the most power, influence, and money. The higher the status, the higher my attraction for the man is. But when a guy is observing girls, the most beautiful girl in the bikini is the most beautiful girl, even when dressed. She is still more attractive to him than the one with higher status. This drives the conclusion that status game doesn’t influence a girl's attractiveness or beauty, while it certainly does influence a man’s value.

I am such a lucky person to have my “life partner” situation figured out. Some people spend years on the hunt for a partner, and we are blessed to have each other, to be able to build strong relationship and take our focus on building the legacy. (Would love to read this in 20 years to see if I was right)

It’s heartbreaking to see your closest one perish and decay into misery. It drags you emotionally, not because you will take the same path, but because they are part of you, your feelings, cheerful emotions, and childhood memories. You can’t help them more than they can help themselves. We as humans tend to throw pearls repeatedly, over and over again, in front of troubling family members. But that’s natural. Humans are weak on those whom they love. That’s how most parents destroy their kids unintentionally. I don’t have a problem seeing people suffer and go through hardship because I know deep down it’s for their best. They will toughen up, and things will get better. I have a problem seeing people waste their potential by depriving human genius of their maximum prosperity.

We are lacking more and more verbal communication skills bc the medium of our communication has changed; it is disrupted by technology. Now, couples express their interests, values, and attention through short-form videos on social media platforms. A good joke is a good meme. There is nothing to be told when everything could be explained in digital form.

I don’t think happiness exists as a concept. I think it’s a byproduct of overcomed difficulty. I preframe my brain to look forward to hard times. Struggle. Failure. I don't want my brain to be mild. Slumpy.

Is it fear or danger? Fear goes away fast if you face it, while danger occurs later; it stabs back on you as a consequence of unfulfilled potential.

What am I optimizing for? Raising society's consciousness by building a new wave of healthy humans.

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